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"Tonight I'm going to write greatly and love greatly and strangle this folly." --Jack Kerouac (11.11.47) ***** I am 25 years old, and I love words. I married Chalupa in November of 2006, and we live in Indiana. I really like art and music and movies and watching pro cycling. I will spend July 2008 in France researching a book on Tour de France fanatics. In the Fall I'll be starting my MFA in Creative Nonfiction at the University of New Hampshire.

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Monday, August 21, 2006

Further developments.

For the past couple of days, I've felt guilty about this post, because I learned soon after posting it that the guy was joking. Well, sort of. I guess his sense of humor just didn't sit well with me, because I, obviously, was offended.

I sometimes wonder if there are certain senses of humor which are simply incompatible. I know that Lana has had this experience, because I've witnessed it. I remember watching her make a joke to a professor of ours, and then watching that professor make a joke in reply, and neither of them could see the other's joke for what it was. It led to lots of misunderstandings and awkward moments.

Maybe that's what that moment was. A misunderstanding.

I think that the harshness of my response (and my coining of Neville's new favorite phrase, "judgmental ass") comes from the personal nature of the subject. I put everything I could into something, and it felt like the person who was teasing me just couldn't understand that this is something I care about. Something I can't live without. Something I love.

Plus, I have this unbelievably strong urge to protect Floyd. I want to correct people's negative opinions of him, because I feel like they haven't been given a chance to get to know him like I have, as an observer and as a fan. I want them to know that he's funny and smart and clever. I want people to see him as a passionate person who cares about doing the right thing, whose personality would never sit well with cheating. I don't want anyone to see him as a dishonest, bumbling individual, because I don't think he's either of those things. I adore Floyd Landis, and I want to keep him safe from other people's bad thoughts.

So let's put it this way: if you criticize him and don't let me know that you're joking, I might get a little defensive and shout about you on my blog. I apologize.

The rest of you, though? You've been warned.

2 Comments:

Blogger nateshorb said...

ooooOOOOOOOooooooo! Sounds like Liz has a BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!





just kidding! just kidding!

7:36 AM  
Blogger Lana Joy said...

so, before I got to the part where you mentioned my misunderstanding with said professor, I thought to myself - oh, this happens to me all the time. Such is my life, and apparently my sense of humor, which isn't abnormal or odd, I don't think.

I'm glad it all worked out - that you found out he was joking. That always helps.

9:34 PM  

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